Monday, March 9, 2015

TRUST

      
 The most expensive thing in the world is TRUST,
                                         it can take YEARS to EARN  & just a matter of SECONDS to LOSE


  Out of all the things that we want from any relationship(be it with friends,family,boyfriends,and girlfriends or someone else) trust is perhaps the most vital.But despite the fact that it's something that we all want,both in ourselves, trusting others and others trusting us,it is one of the hardest things to define.

            One of the most important  aspect of trust is to being able to place confidence in another person.Often this comes down to being able to tell someone a secret of some kind  and knowledge that they won't reveal it to another soul.this is important especially with friends,because we all have things we need to talk about but we might not want to share with everyone.on other occasions,although not being the best thing that any of us do.It can mean telling someone else's secret to a third person  and knowing that they will not give away that you broke someone else's confidence.

                                        The other main aspect of trust is  knowing that a  person will always tell you the truth and not hide anything.this is often the biggest problem with trust with lovers,when one person will be hiding things from the other.this often leads to the suspicious person snooping around in their partner's things,reading text messages and emails and even following them if they suspect that they are lying  about where they are going.often this problem is caused by another break of trust : cheating

                           Cheating is often the worst thing that people can do to their partner,as the trust placed in that partner is on the understanding that they will not be with another person.however,it is often that lying that goes with cheating that is the biggest problem,and worse than the cheating itself.