DESTINY AND HARDWORK

 

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS LUCK. YOU DETERMINE  YOUR OWN                                                        DESTINY 

                                    I think this statement is very true  to a certain extent.There is no such as luck.You determine your own destiny.This is because nothing comes free and easy in this world.It is you who have to work for it.there is also a saying,"99% comes  from hard work only 1%  comes from luck". Miracles do happen but very seldom.

                      Where there is a will there is a way goes the adage but, how practical is it in today's context is something that is to be scrutinized threadbare.

             Hard work and perseverance are the two keys to success.We can shape our own destiny by hard work  and perseverance.but,what if we don't succeed even after working hard and persevering? 

                         We often feel and believe that we can shape our destiny to our liking,by hard work and perseverance.But,when we don't succeed even after working hard,we lose faith in these values and feel that the destiny has something else in store for us and we are just slaves to it.I feel that no matter however hard we work,destiny controls us and our future and we are bound to follow it demurely.

               But on the other hand,i feel all this talk of destiny and believing in it blindly are the signs of a weak-minded person who wants to avoid his responsibilities. A strong person will weather every storm of destiny,come what may,to achieve his/her goals!They will not merely accept what destiny has to offer them.They will fight for what they want from destiny.

                     There goes a saying 'shallow men believe in luck,strong men believe in cause and effect'. This holds very true of persons who believe in themselves and in the values of hard work.Just because you didn't get something or couldn't achieve your cherished goal even after a lot of hard work you  shouldn't settle for something inferior,which you may feel  the destiny has to offer you or has offered you!

                                                  Always be a fighter and fight until your last breath for accomplishing your dreams.This is a world of cut-throat and ruthless competition.remember in this world there is no place for quitters because "winners never quit and quitters never win".

FRIENDSHIP AND BETRAYAL

                   Betrayal -     A word that is so harsh yet it still exists in the world.this word had belittled the importance of the word,'trust'.It caused the strong bonds between two people to be broken and had replaced the kind hearts of many with hatred.

                                The trust that a person has in his friends and family is paramount to a healthy life and quality relationships.Once this trust is broken,or betrayed a person's security can be shattered,leaving him doubtful and insecure about all aspects of life.

                          Backstabbing friends- This is usually more in high school.

                                 No one wants to have bad experiences in high school,but how can it be helped?You're starting to look at colleges,and grades are becoming important so you can get to the college you want to get to.As if homework is not enough,you have to deal with all the drama that goes around boyfriends,schoolwork,family issues-but no one expects to have a backstabbing friend.it's the last thing on your mind.But unfortunately it happens.
                                  High school changes people.girls can feel intimidated by friends and guys.drugs and alcohol play an important role in being "cool".And even though you know you're doing the right thing...you get punished.
                                 So how do you deal with those backstabbing friends?Well,to start with,if they're backstabbing you,they are not your friends.You've been friends since forever-best friends for life!No one wants to lose that.But if they're doing this to you obviously their views have changed.But before dumping a friend,talk to her.If she denies it,then is she really worth the trouble?If she can't be honest with you,then she doesn't care about your friendship anymore.She could be intimidated by other girls,but if she can't see where you're coming from,then it's not worth it.    
                            There is a  saying: some people enter your life for a season.When one door closes,another one opens.just think about all the others doors opening.you may be losing one friend,but you might gain another,someone closer and better.
                              Don't let it get you down .keep your head up and think positive.someone else will enter your life and make you realize why it didn't work out with her.You'll find someone who will accept you for who you are,no matter what other girls say.

SAVE GIRL CHILD

                               It is indeed important to save girl child as today's girl will be the mother of a child tomorrow.Female feticide and infanticide are not just only issues pertaining with  girl child.But at every stage of life,she is discriminated and abandoned for education,living standard and basic nutrition.She is not considered at par with the boy child.Not only in early stages but even as a teenager,she is not provided with good clothes,nutritious food items and forced to eat left over crumbs.Even when she is supposed to be in college,she is hurriedly married off where she has to depend on others for her survival.she doesn't enjoy social and economic independence.These conditions further aggravate  the overall condition of females in a country.again if she gives birth to a girl,the whole journey of discrimination begins.

                         She is your mom,she is your wife,she is your daughter......
                                  simply respect and feel her that she is the most awesome person on earth...
                          you don't know but she even doesn't have time  for herself as she always try to make you happy..and this happens only in INDIA..

                                 On the one hand we see girls entering in the fields of all kinds of professions holding senior positions in offices,becoming engineers,doctors,managers etc..We are obviously impressed and are likely to believe that,the position of the girl is now after all not too bad.
  However the complexity  of the problem becomes malicious when we see that,together with girls entering professions there is a simultaneous and continuous rise in the graph of crimes against women.
                 Why and how do these two sides of the same problem co-relate?

This situation is true of the urban area where education and freedom is given to girls-to a great extent,but even this growth of this class does not really bear any testimony to the equality of girls with boys .

                         In villages girls are not sent to schools and,if at all they are,they drop out after an year or two of schooling.Here,the myth still remains that,education is useless for girls-they have to concentrate on house work, child bearing and child bringing up all through life-and all this, it is believed needs no education.The village people are hard to convince that education of women is as important if not more important than the education of men.Girl child-she is,even to-day in the 21st century treated as an object to be used instead of an individual human being with all the ingredients of human beings-like her counterparts-the boy.
                      No matter what status a women may achieve outside home,inside the home she,by and large remains a chattel.When this is the ground reality of the girl at home and outside home it appears that, even education and financial independence have not helped women really enhancing their status.