FRIENDSHIP AND BETRAYAL

                   Betrayal -     A word that is so harsh yet it still exists in the world.this word had belittled the importance of the word,'trust'.It caused the strong bonds between two people to be broken and had replaced the kind hearts of many with hatred.

                                The trust that a person has in his friends and family is paramount to a healthy life and quality relationships.Once this trust is broken,or betrayed a person's security can be shattered,leaving him doubtful and insecure about all aspects of life.

                          Backstabbing friends- This is usually more in high school.

                                 No one wants to have bad experiences in high school,but how can it be helped?You're starting to look at colleges,and grades are becoming important so you can get to the college you want to get to.As if homework is not enough,you have to deal with all the drama that goes around boyfriends,schoolwork,family issues-but no one expects to have a backstabbing friend.it's the last thing on your mind.But unfortunately it happens.
                                  High school changes people.girls can feel intimidated by friends and guys.drugs and alcohol play an important role in being "cool".And even though you know you're doing the right thing...you get punished.
                                 So how do you deal with those backstabbing friends?Well,to start with,if they're backstabbing you,they are not your friends.You've been friends since forever-best friends for life!No one wants to lose that.But if they're doing this to you obviously their views have changed.But before dumping a friend,talk to her.If she denies it,then is she really worth the trouble?If she can't be honest with you,then she doesn't care about your friendship anymore.She could be intimidated by other girls,but if she can't see where you're coming from,then it's not worth it.    
                            There is a  saying: some people enter your life for a season.When one door closes,another one opens.just think about all the others doors opening.you may be losing one friend,but you might gain another,someone closer and better.
                              Don't let it get you down .keep your head up and think positive.someone else will enter your life and make you realize why it didn't work out with her.You'll find someone who will accept you for who you are,no matter what other girls say.